Leaderhip equals….

…the ability to manage your state and change someone elses state to the better.
….the ability to influence, not control.
…the ability to bring certainty to uncertain situations by telling the truth (not spin it or invent it
….the ability to take action
…the ability to care, feel and connect
…the ability to find the truth
…the ability to understand what is influencing others (in order to influence them)
….the ability to create real, lasting, positive change in others and in the world

  • Complete focus on serving, get rid of ego and certainty that you will be guided to find a solution

  • Leadership is not about keeping things like they are (to preserve), but to help to grow and help to change (help your kids grow!)

  • Managers get you to do stuff short term, Leaders get people to do stuff when they are not there

  • Leadership starts with your state!

  • Aligning and agreeing first and then leading (mirror and then pace)

  • You can't help someone who suffers, if you are suffering yourself. So take care of yourself first

  • Energy is Everything - high level energy and you lead, with low level you follow

  • Winners anticipate - losers react

  • Leaders also have compassion for people who don´t treat them well, all others are followers

  • Collaboration beats competition

  • Leadership equals certainty, a vision about you are absolutely certain

  • You bring certainty to an environment where there is no certainty

  • Be a results leader not an activity manager

Money

Money is not about buying a Yacht, it’s about having choices, freedom and living life on your terms not someone else’s
My favorite things in life don’t cost any money - Steve Jobs
It is hard to imagine a more stupid or more dangerous way of making decisions than by putting those decisions in the hands of people who pay no price for being wrong.
The only way to become and stay wealthy is to find a way to do more for others than anyone else is doing in an area that people really value
If you think wealth is money, you are terribly wrong. Money just amplifies what you are - if you are an asshole, you have more to be a greater asshole - real wealth is about giving and creating caring experiences for other people
Power moves to those who are truly willing to serve
Use money to make more money not to look like you have more money